12 years ago when my now-husband asked me to be in an open relationship. We had only been dating a few months at the time and spent the first two years together figuring out how to define commitment for ourselves.

We’ve now been together for 12 years. I am in the process of writing about our open relationship and this blog is to share short stories and get feedback as well as create community and answer questions from anyone else considering or already in a non-monogamous relationship.